Things have been busy of course. 8 yo and 5 yo dd started girl scouts and are having a great time. The other kids are just the same busy as before. LOL
The 12 year old is staying with a friend of mine. We thought the lying wasn't as bad as it truly was, and then stealing, threatening the other kids, the DISGUSTING messages on myspace to boys she knows and doesnt know, and the problems she started for my 14 year old son were all too much for me. Then throw in some REALLY inappropriate things found written about my 14 year old son, and we decided that our home is no the best placement for her right now. A very dear friend of mine found me in quite a state over all of it Saturday and offered to take her. I tried all other family members including her Grandmother and everyone has refused to take her. they have all had her before in their homes, and she created so much havoc, including accusing several people of "touching" her, that they will not take her in again.
I know she has been through a lot, and needs severe help, but she is now become a danger to the other children in the house, and I cannot sacrifice them. She is starting counseling, an I would like to have her placed in a therapeutic home, but I guess we will see how she does with my friend, As my friend wants me to let her have the chance to help her 1st.
The house as been so nice for the past 2 days. No one is walking on eggshells, I am not having to break up fights, everyone's missing stuff is back. The 5 yo and the 2 yo have been playing and having fun. We now realize they are VERY afraid of her. Sadly her 5 yo sister has not even asked where she is, or why she is not home. So we will take this all day by day until we figure out what the best plan is for everyone.